I'm in the early stages of pregnancy. Very unexpected. Not been together that long although known each other a few years. Complicated situation in that we both have kids from previous marriages and both have full custody so to move in together would mean the kids having to live together too. They get on wonderfully together, but I worry that forcing them to live together would cause problems.
I live in a council house, BF owns his. To live together we would need a much larger house which is unachievable with our incomes.
We currently live 45 minutes from each other.
I absolutely want to live together but don't want to upset our children. Eldest is 14, youngest is 6. His kids lost their mum, mine haven't seen their dad for over 6 years (my youngest has never met him)
What to do? I've contacted council and asked if we could moved nearer to BF but as we already have a home we are not in need so would take years.
No room in BF's house for all the kids. He's happy to move closer to me but my area is more expensive than his. I'm happy to give up my home and moving to BF's area if it was possible.
Is it really practical to live 45 minutes away from the father of my child? I want him with me.
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RedAmaryllis · 01/03/2017 16:17
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