I feel so low right now. As much as I don't want to believe it, DH obviously isn't attracted to me. I'm mid 20s, normal weight and I didn't think there was anything wrong with the way I looked or our relationship otherwise.
It's embarrassing. In the last year he's lost total interest in having sex with me. I try to initiate it but he just ignores me. Last night I was really craving some intimacy from him and I had been quiet flirty with him all day (nothing to crazy, just tame flirting). Every effort I put in he just pretended I never even said anything. Anyway, stupidly I thought maybe he hadn't noticed and last night I put on some nice underwear and tried it with him only to be rejected once again.
We just had a bit of an argument and he told me I looked desperate last night because I kept talking about sex. I couldn't even reply to that. I felt embarrassed and began to cry and asked him to leave me to be alone.
Now I don't know what to think. What am I doing wrong? I'm I crap in bed? Is he just not bothered with me? I have tried to talk to him about this before but he just says it because he's tired. I don't understand this as the few times we have had sex in the past 6ish months have been him waking me up in the middle of the night (the next morning he denies it and says he doesn't remember it happening so he must've been asleep).
Any tips on what I can do to be wanted?
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DH doesn't want to have sex with me anymore
timetocall · 26/02/2017 00:29
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