DP sleeps on the sofa MOST of the time. He's been working away the past 18 months 4 days per week and coming home weekends but lately been on the couch every single night. He used to fall asleep on the couch off and on and occasionally early in relationship but would come to bed early hours or most nights, and he told me he used to fall asleep a lot on the couch on his own as a teen when his divorced mum worked nights, but it's now getting so ridiculous that I think it's way beyond normal. I do think he's "checked out" of the relationship but it's just abnormal! No bedding on the couch but a throw. Even DD who is a teen is asking why he's on the sofa. I asked home recently & gets very defensive when approached as if I've got the problem - says he's been stressed lately. Think this is a cop-out - he's been stressed many times over the years and so does everyone else and they're not sleeping on the couch! It's bad for the back/neck and bad for the sofa surely? And ...well...gross.
Starting to REALLY offend and bother me now.
Anyone know ANYONE like this? No babies or toddlers in the house and he likes to fall asleep to tv on but there was always a tv in the bedroom anyway, so it's not that.
Sigh....
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Anybody else's partner sleep on the sofa most of the time?
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LilyArmflaps · 23/02/2017 23:20
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