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I have a crush...

(9 Posts)
Mary636 Thu 23-Feb-17 16:16:34

Just that really! I have a crush on a guy i hardly know. I have literally spent about 6 hours in his presence!
I am seeing him tomorrow evening at an exercise class. Should I tell him I think he is terribly good looking or not? I should add that I know nothing about him!
My thinking is that if he thinks I am a nutter at least I won't regret not saying anything?

NoFuckingRoomOnMyBroom Thu 23-Feb-17 16:50:20

I don't think I'd go with telling him how good looking he is, you could try an actual conversation to get to know him a bit-he could just be hot with absolutely zero personality... Unless of course you're just looking for a shag, then yes by all means tell him he's sexy as hell & ask if he fancies a nsa fuck.

HarmlessChap Thu 23-Feb-17 16:56:23

Maybe try to find out if he's available (and straight) 1st?

Perhaps have a chat after class and then say you shouldn't hold him up or his wife or girlfriend will be wondering where he's got to. If he replies yes they will you know he's not available but if he says he hasn't got one then perhaps say something like "what a good looking fella like you, that does surprise me, fancy a coffee some time?"

NotTheFordType Thu 23-Feb-17 21:07:44

Do you hsve a partner? Does he?

Hassled Thu 23-Feb-17 21:13:14

I'd love to witness the conversation in which you go up to a random bloke and say "I think you're terribly good looking" grin. Do it. Go on - you know you want to.

Thinkingofausername1 Thu 23-Feb-17 21:30:51

Might make his day blush

Sweets101 Thu 23-Feb-17 21:34:07

I have a terrible crush on Tom Hardy. I mean really, ridiculous.
If I had ever meet him whilst he was single I don't think i'd have been able to help myself.
Tell him.

Bluntness100 Thu 23-Feb-17 21:38:37

>>what a good looking fella like you, that does surprise me, fancy a coffee some time?"<<

For the love of all that is holy don't say that, it's like something out an eighties porno. (Sorry harmless) agree with no fucking room on my broom, just talk to the guy.

Mary636 Thu 23-Feb-17 22:08:59

I don't have a partner, just come out of a relationship. Am trying to 'get back out there' after a few years off the scene! I clearly have a lot to learn!
I don't wanna freak the poor dude out. So maybe telling him he is hot straight away might make him think I am bat shit crazy! He hasn't been at the class for a week so if he is there tomorrow I could subtly ask if he has been on holiday and take the conversation from there!
I am painfully shy and am basically crap at any type of small talk! Oh god I am going to crash and burn!!!

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