So I've been with DP for two years. Three months into our relationship he kissed someone else and from what I can gather was texting her etc. I found this out 6 months ago and whilst I was devastated, I decided (maybe stupidly) to give him another chance. I genuinely believe that there was no more to his cheating than what I already know but obviously this has made me suspicious about his every move.
He works in a job that isn't particularly sociable. Since working there the only nights out I've ever known them have are the annual Christmas do. But in the past couple of weeks he seems to have a lot of work things come up that have made me feel really suspicious.
He text me last Wednesday and "reminded" me that he'd be out that night for a meal with work. Despite having not mentioned it once and having been in the kitchen with me that morning whilst I took meat out of the freezer to defrost for dinner that night. I reminded him of this and it ended in a huge row and he ended up not going.
He then came home on Monday and said he was going in town on Saturday night with work people. Like I said, this is (as far as I'm aware) completely out of character for his colleagues to do and I didn't realise he worked with the sort of people who would be going to bars and clubbing on a Saturday night. The way he's always talked about them in the past is in a very 'colleague-y' way rather than as friends.
I suppose what I'm asking your thoughts on is - does it sound to you like I'm paranoid and overthinking due to what he's done in the past, or do you think there's more to these sudden work nights out - someone he's getting on with too well at work maybe?
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Am I going mad?
BlondeGinger · 22/02/2017 13:49
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