Not sure if that is the right term.
I was in a very very abusive relationship (EA, think silent treatment, eggshells etc) when I was married to twat exh. Ended 2.5 years ago and life is immeasurably better, DC is great, have an amazing boyfriend who loves and respects me.
Sometimes when I read threads on her I think "why does she put up with that" or "that's awful, I'd never put up with being treated like that" before catching myself and thinking ehh hold on, you were treated like that for years!
Is this part of the healing process or something? I find it such a strange thought chain.
Currently sorting out my divorce so maybe these thoughts are to the fore. He's fucked off and has no contact with my DC.
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Cognitive dissonance - I think
Squirmy65ghyg · 20/02/2017 20:40
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