So, Ive been single for a good few years, Ive been looking for a relationship with no luck whatsover, not even a date.
Ive now been contacted by someone I met through friends last year, we met for coffee at the weekend and he wants to go on a date this week.
My dilemma is - hes lovely. Really nice to talk to, similar interests etc but he went in for a kiss after us agreeing to a date and it was the most awkward peck kiss, there was no spark at all, and Im kind of panicking at the idea of a date now.
This isnt good, is it? I feel so bad in that Ive been saying for years "I just want to find a good guy" and now one is interested, my libido is saying "meh, dont think so".
Is it worth hanging on in case something clicks? If I was going to a house party with other people there, Id probably make a beeline to talk to him because he is so lovely but I dont want to lead him on :(
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