I feel utterly trapped and not sure what to do.
My husband and I met at university and have been together nearly 18 years. I had only 1 other relationship prior to us getting together and at first I liked the way he took control over situations and made me feel secure. This soon turned into an aggressive and domineering nature. He has a nasty temper and after several physical fights with my then male housemates- my friends gave me the ultimatum (us or him) and I chose him.
Fast forward to now and we have 3 young children (6, 4 and 1) and I am desperately unhappy. He is verbally abusive to him and belittles me and puts me down. He calls me an idiot and makes comments about how I need to lose weight. Although he has never hit me, he has at times pushed me or wrestled me to the floor. We haven't been intimate since we conceived our son who is now 1. I feel like there is no care or love left.
I am stressed due to work pressures and do all the school and nursery pick ups and drop offs and bed time routine on my own. When I talk about this, he says I have no right to feel stressed because this routine is 'not stressful' . I am constantly ill and run down and feel empty inside. It depresses me this is my life and I see no way out. How can I split up these children's home?
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murrgirl · 20/02/2017 13:05
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