I've had a breakdown and my relationship is on the rocks because of it. I was in a dv relationship for 13 years, i moved away and got on with life and met my current partner but now the past is having and effect on me. I'm suffering from depression and anxiety. Dp and myself had a huge falling out a few weeks ago and even tho we are trying to sort it out we still are not right. Dp said that he can't relax with me and that we won't get better until I start getting better and start getting back to my old self but I feel like I need his help to get better. We talk about it so he is here for me mentally but not emotionally as he has never been a cuddly person but I feel like I need it but he won't/can't. I know it's hard on him as I'm usually a lively person that just gets on with life and now I'm withdrawn, everything is an effort and I'm overthinking things. I just want to know how would your dp be if you was or have been through a tough time?
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