I've made a list of objectives of what I think a happy and healthy relationship should be.
The bullet points of which are:-
Kindness
Friendship
Unprompted affection and declarations of love
Physical contact
Regular sex.
This is primarily to focus my mind and give myself some clarity on where I want our relationship to get to and I've gone into detail of how I define each point and where I see we are currently, but no suggestions of how to achieve it.
Would you give such a list to your DP or do you think it would it come across as passive aggressive?
I'm thinking of giving it to her and asking her to do the same and give to me.
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Listing where I want our relationship to be
HarmlessChap · 18/02/2017 14:45
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