Am not quite at this stage yet, but my fear of what will happen is paralysing me to the extent that I can't do the things I am supposed to be doing now.
How do you tell someone you want a divorce when you are scared of them ranting / raving / shouting, and then proceeding to make your life as difficult as possible?
And then I am supposed to live in the same house as him until things are sorted , because we have dc and I don't want it to seem as if I have abandoned them, or set the precedent of being able to live elsewhere??
What on earth am I supposed to do?
One of the reasons I want a divorce is due to H's short temper and cyclical rages (not super often, but often enough), but will these same things mean that I have to be with someone who doesn't love me forever??
My instinct would be to move out and divorce H from a distance, but I know any solicitor will tell me not to .
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How on earth do/did you tell your H you want(ed) a divorce, and then carry on living in the same house as them?
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