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skanky git!

(11 Posts)
ginandlime Tue 14-Feb-17 20:44:15

So, tonight I picked a lock, yay! Been planning on doing it for a while as I knew that the box contained some film of stuff I had been bullied by stbxh into doing years ago and I wanted rid of it. I was right, it was there, along with porn dvds and magazines. Every single one of them in envelopes addressed to me. Fucking bastard! Furious! All binned now, but fuck I'm shocked and angry.

scoobydoo1971 Tue 14-Feb-17 22:48:46

Learn from this mistake. Never let anyone record you doing anything that you would not wish to see in a public place. There are so many stories of revenge in the media at the moment. You have to be prepared for the fact that he may have other recordings, or copies. If he uses it against you then you can report it to the police.

Mo55chop5 Tue 14-Feb-17 22:55:55

I would burn it all if you have a barbq

MommieMommyMom Tue 14-Feb-17 22:58:49

What kind of c**t bullies someone into doing things like that.
Glad you got rid of him x

ginandlime Wed 15-Feb-17 00:05:46

scooby, I'm pushing sixty, and when you've been with somebody for a very long time, capitulation is often easier than the repercussions. I was with him for over 20 years. We have adult children, I'm well educated and yet, it happened. Trust me, nothing like this will ever happen again.

Ineedmorelemonpledge Wed 15-Feb-17 12:34:43

When you say envelopes what do you mean OP?

Was he ordering porn to your name?

ginandlime Wed 15-Feb-17 12:44:12

Yes, lemonpledge, that's exactly what he was doing.

Ineedmorelemonpledge Wed 15-Feb-17 14:51:42

What a cowardly prick. For security do you know if he's been ordering other things in your name OP?

Best to check.

ginandlime Wed 15-Feb-17 15:45:13

The last lot seemed to be around 2006, so a long time ago. No idea if there is anything else, but the likelihood is I would know if it were anything after about 2007.

hellsbellsmelons Wed 15-Feb-17 15:53:53

Burn it all.
Everything back to normal.
Lock back in place.
And then leave it.
It's 2006 so probably not looked in there for years????

GinandLime Wed 15-Feb-17 17:10:06

I've chucked it all and destroyed the stuff that has anything to do with me. I don't care whether or not he's looked in years. He used me and my name. I chucked the box too, let's face it, he's unlikely to ask for it, isn't he.

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