Just wanted to update really.
I wrote on here in December all problems with my husband and I. Two young children also.
I decided, thanks in part to support on here, to leave him at the end of December and nearly two months later life is so so so much better.
It is so nice waking up in the morning and just getting on with our day. There is nobody shouting at me, telling me all the things I am doing wrong, bring ratty with me / negative / telling me and the kids all the reasons why we can't so the things we want.
I took them to the cinema and we had cereal for supper special treat as it was the weekend, no-one eye rolling, bitching, making a comment about dishes. We go to the park, to their clubs, to playdates or we sit up all snuggly on the coach and watch a movie. I've decided to take them away for a few nights in the February break spontaneously. We can swim, go to parks and for walks.
It's like a massive weight has been lifted off my shoulders. He has them two days a week when I work and I miss them but have used this time after work to clean, chill, take baths, watch tv etc and then give them my all on the other five days.
I don't know why I am writing this other than to say there can be real happiness and if you are in an emotionally abusive relationship then there is hope xx
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helpmeplease2045 · 13/02/2017 12:23
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