Friends and family often comment on how lucky I am to have such a laid back husband, however I find his behaviours more neglectful than laid back.
He is scruffy and unkempt, makes as little effort as he can get away with in most of what he does, avoids any sort of confrontation, ignores when he's being taken advantage of or controlled and completely avoids change of any kind.
I often feel I have my work cut out as he will shun anything that he doesn't seem absolutely necessary, although his very calm balanced demeanor often had a positive impact when I'm stressed out or upset.
I wish people could see how difficult his "laidback" nature often makes life for me, but instead they emphasise how wonderful and great he is, happy to get along with anyone and everyone for a bit of peace.
when does laid back become neglect? Any examples from others or insights greatly appreciated!
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Laid back or neglectful?
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chalkandchocolate · 09/02/2017 16:04
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