Me and my DP have been together for 2 years. We are extremely happy together and are very much in love.
From the beginning he hasn't wanted to share details about his past relationships. We are both young (21 and 24) and he has told me his other relationships haven't been serious. He's told me he's never brought anyone home before me to meet parents etc. I know he's had 4 sexual partners before me but he won't tell me anything about them! The most I know is that one girl he was seeing on/off for a year but they were never actually together.
I have been really open with him about my past, but similarly, none of my previous relationships have been anything serious.
I know he has these people on Facebook. It's not a trust issue as I trust him 100% but it's just the fact they can see me via his posts and pictures, and I have no idea who they are! I feel like they can see me and I can't see them if that makes sense.
I have brought it up in the past and it just ends up in a semi argument. He doesn't get why I want know, he thinks it's odd that I care. I'm honestly just so curious!🕵🏼♀️
I'm just wondering if it's normal for me to feel really frustrated by this? Or am I in the wrong for wanting to know? Like I said it's not a trust thing, we're both really happy and I trust him completely. Sounds daft but I really wanna see what they look like, know what they do etc.
Feel free to tell me if you think I'm crazy!
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I want to know about his past
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MissJSays · 05/02/2017 23:04
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