I would appreciate some thoughts / advice on my current situation. Split from long term partner just over two years ago. It was a difficult split and there were loads of problems until last summer.
Last summer I also started talking to a work colleague who was going through a similar situation and we became very close friends-texting a lot, going out for coffee, lunch etc.
Just before Christmas, we went out on work events a couple of times and got very close - hugging, holding hands etc but nothing more. However this week we went out for dinner and ended up sleeping together.
The problem is. after talking about things is that he says he is not sure he is ready for a new relationship. I'm not putting any pressure on him as his divorce is being completed this month but should I just walk away before it gets more complicated?
Mmm? Maybe he's just starting to come out of his marriage and wants to explore the field - and you're number one on his journey? Look after yourself OP - he may not be ready to go straight into another LTR. His choice - but don't let him confuse you or lead you to sometmwhere you didn't want to go.