Hi everyone
really need some advice and please be as frank as possible!
6 months ago I left my husband, he had been cheating on me for well over a year - using every way he could find. He belittled me to other women, would be up all night texting them while I was on nights etc I knew about it for quite some time and i confronted him many times too. he never thought I would leave and when Id pack my bags he somehow managed to persuade me to stay, but one day it just got too much and i left.
im now living on my own and slowly getting better, the problem is that I just feel awful for him. i dont want to sound obnoxious or big headed at all (because im not) but he literally has nothing without me there. he doesnt really have a family or support network and his friends have distanced themselves a lot since they found out what he'd been doing. when i lived with him I did everything, food, shopping, bills, washing, support, love and a friend - anything he needed i was there (not only for him but for his mother too). and now im not and its almost like hes just rotting away. i loved him with all my heart, he was my best friend and i will always care for him, i had to forgive him to move on but id never want anything bad for him. I know ill never trust him again but I cant help but feel guilty. will this feeling ever go away?
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imaan19 · 02/02/2017 22:15
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