How do I thank SIL for a cheap quality gift. I usually appreciate the thought behind a gift more than the actual item but my SIL has been sending one disappointing gift after another. It seems she is sending them because she has to not because she wants to. The last one is joint gift for DH and me. Random bar stuff. I don't drink a lot, and I definitely don't make cocktails. If I don't thank her, it would look rude, plus she will mention it to her brother in a tactful way. I feel frustrated because we spent so much time and effort buying nice presents for her and her family. Last year she gave me shirt from a discount store with slight damage. She doesn't even bother to check the quality. It's not that she can't afford a decent gift. She makes such a show when she gives something, will explain the thoughtfulness behind it. And I am left with no option other than praising her even though inside I know most of her gifts are not useful for me. If I just say thank you, she will ask me if I like it. How do I handle it?
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