I've posted a couple of times vaguely about how my 'd'm is controlling, overbearing and very interfering in my life.
However I found yesterday that she called me a bad mother on Christmas Eve to my stbxh.
She had already called me it twice that day in a face to face row, which she followed up with slapping me round the face twice (this is all because I don't want to be with my husband and she doesn't want dd in emotional turmoil and her life ruined, her words not mine).
Anyway, I brought it up with her a couple of weeks ago that she called me that and she flat out refused to believe me. She was ADAMANT she didn't say it.
Anyway, me and stbxh were "talking" and I said for the sake of our did I want to go NC with my mother.
She makes me anxious and I get palpations just seeing her name come up on my phone.
Anyway, I said what she called me and then she flat out denied it and he said that on Christmas Eve she had said it to him to, which he refuted (thank God).
To me, it just seems like such an unforgivable thing to say.
I suppose I'm asking if you'd agree and what other things would make you go NC with a parent?
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What is a no go with "d"m?
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WienerDiva · 30/01/2017 15:32
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