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relationship falling apart :(

(6 Posts)
buzziebee99 Mon 30-Jan-17 14:31:40

I am feeling incredibly down and alone so needed to chat to someone about my problems. My partner had been invited to his best mates stag do which is in May a few months back and he had told me that it wasnt his scene and that he would prefer to have a night alone with the stag and their other best friend another time which I was happy with as it was a couple of nghts in Liverpool, so I was invited to the hen party which was the same weekend and when i told he he said well say we both cant go as we are booked to go away, so i did as i was told yetlast night I find out that he has paid the money to go on the stag do! I quite rightly lost it a bit as I believe he has lied to me but he insists that he didnt lie he has just not told me!! he said this was to keep eveyone happy as i am a controlling c**t who didnt want him to go on the stag do and this way his friend wont give him grief about not going. I feel betrayed and I now feel like I cant trust him now I feel like something has been lost, He says get over it or do one as he cant put up with my shit anymore! bear in mind I am a stay at home mum to his 4 children . Basically I feel that If I want to stay in this relationship I have to shut my mouth and not have an opinion on anything otherwise it upsets his perfect life . I really dont know what to do sad

ImperialBlether Mon 30-Jan-17 14:33:32

I know what I would do. If anyone called me names like that I'd dump them. Surely you're not getting much from a relationship with this man?

needmoregin Mon 30-Jan-17 14:54:59

I think you should take his advice and " do one " he sounds vile . Who calls there wife that word anyway ! Utterly gross . No one should have to deal with that .

SparklyMagpie Mon 30-Jan-17 15:00:33

Oh God do not stay in this relationship, I'd take what he said and run with it. You can do SO much better ! X

Ellisandra Mon 30-Jan-17 15:52:17

Do one! Definitely.
What a horrible piece of scum he is.
Start making your plans to leave.

jcne Mon 30-Jan-17 17:02:42

'His' children as in not your children?....

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