This may be long, bear with me. Any advice gratefully received.
I went through the CMS a couple of years ago as my ExH was amending his maintenance payments up and down monthly depending on his mood and I needed the stability of knowing how much I was going to get each month. He has always had his own business so I knew there was a risk he could massage his salary to suit but as at that stage he also had a salaried (PAYE) role I decided it was a risk worth taking for peace of mind.
In April of last year he left his salaried role to focus solely on his own business. At that stage I half expected the maintenance payments to change but never heard anything and continued to get what he had been paying (£380pm for 2 children). The annual review is in March so I knew that there was a potential the amount could go down then.
I received a letter from the CMS last week telling me that from 5 May 2016 his gross weekly income is now £58 per week and therefore from 5 May 2016 I should receive the princely sum of £7 per week in maintenance payments. Therefore by my calculations he has “overpaid” by around £350pcm for the last 9 months (total £3,150). Given his payment amount is now apparently £28pcm I am to receive nothing at all for over 2 years.
This is obviously a huge shock, not least because his salary is clearly not going to be £58 per week. I rely on the money I receive from him in order to pay for everything required for 2 young children. It doesn’t cover half even at £380 per month but that’s by the by.
I text my ExH (very acrimonious relationship), and asked him what was going on, he said that he had submitted some paperwork to them back in April (when he changed jobs), but they said nothing was done at that stage so he doesn’t know what’s going on. He said he called them up and they said that he shouldn’t pay anything until March when the annual review is due because he’s overpaid but they apparently wouldn’t tell him by how much he has overpaid.
I called them myself and asked if he had submitted paperwork to prove a change in salary in April, why hadn’t the payments been changed then? They couldn’t answer me. I also asked how on earth his salary could be £58 per week since May if he has been paying me £95 per week in that period. They couldn’t answer that either. Really not sure where to go from here, I can’t get any sense out of them.
I guess if he is lying about his salary to the HMRC then there is nothing CMS can do, his wife works with him so I guess he could just pay her all the salary and pay himself nothing to get out of paying CMS? Is there anything I can do about this? Is it perfectly legal and therefore not even tax evasion. I think most of his clients would pay via cheque or bank transfer so don’t think he can be getting too much cash in hand work. His businesses FB page shows evidence of a thriving business.
I’m so angry that he has potentially played the system like this – and is of course hiding behind the CMS (my fault for going to them in the first place obviously), and says he’s overpaid so clearly only fair to pay nothing now.
Any advice or is this yet another thing I have to suck up, and carry on smiling gaily while I pack them off to this no good bastard once a month for the weekend as he’s “too busy working” to have them any more than that, whilst I juggle a full time job and looking after them with all that entails. His pay must be about 20p per hour if he earns as little as he says while working the hours he says.
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writingsonthewall · 27/01/2017 11:25
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