Hi all I'm so broken at the moment I have been with my man for 10 years this year we have a 7 year old and 3 year old we are meant to be getting married this June ! He got diagnosed with anxiety before Christmas and since taking his meda his sex drive has disappeared he doesn't cuddle me etc I would get undressed in front of him and he would go crazy he has been back to the doctors but so far the meds haven't helped we are having sex once a week and I'm ok with that I'm not pressuring him but last night he came home from work saying he had had enough of everything he loves me but just doesn't no which way to turn I don't think he wants to or is scared to get married but that doesn't bother me as it's a piece of paper I'm a mess I don't no what to do he feels I deserve better and he doesn't want to keep hurting me but I want him I want us I don't want it to be over but I don't no if it can be fixed he doesn't no what he wants I've suggested going to stay with friends for a week clear his head etc I'm getting no reaction please help me xx
Could he go back to the GP and be tested for depression and have his medication looked at/adjusted if it is not working. or the ED effects are too bad for him to cope with. I'm sorry you are having to deal with this - it is so tough.