Tomorow I am to attend a family funeral , as my DP met this man once or twice he has decided that he should go too I wasn't overly chuffed as I know what he's like for showing off and faffing etc.
Anyway I didn't think it would go down well to ask him not to go so he arranged he would come here and pick me up at 10am...the family are meeting at 10am , I told him this was no good and if he's going to faff about I'll just get a lift with family to ensure that I'm not late...he's now changed his plans to come and stay here tonight so we're ready to go first thing.
Anyway I still have the worries about his showing off when we get there, he tends to be quite loud, he lacks confidence and over-compensates by making jokes and trying to make conversation with people. My family have only met him a couple of times and emotions will be running high tomorow and I'm frightened he will put his foot in it with someone and end up getting punched!
How do I tell him to just stay quiet throughout the service and 'get-together' in the pub afterwards without sounding like a bitch?
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How do I tell DP not to show off tomorow?
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whitebear · 25/02/2007 16:40
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