Hello, was just wondering if anybody has been or is in this situation and Looking for some advice.
Basically I have been with my Partner for 4 years now and have a 2 year old child together. Before being with me, my husband was divorced from a 15 year marriage with two kids by his ex wife.
My Partners family are very close to her, they basically love her, and have disowned me and my daughter because of her and this frustrates me, as my daughter is innocent.
Yesterday I got angry with the situation and decided to call them.
this was clearly a mistake as he's father could not even remember my daughters name which infuriated me more, they believe me and my partner should make the effort with them, contact them, go to see them, but they have never once tried to have a relationship with my daughter. it was her birthday last week and nothing from my partners whole family.
Do I stay with my partner and see if things change, should I end it with my partner because the stress of his family causes problems between us, as he always defends them whenever i bring up the conversation, or should I stay with my partner and completely cut his family out of my daughters life, and move on and forget them as they are clearly set in their way and don't believe they are doing anything wrong by disregarding their granddaughter, but still have great relationships with all their other grandchildren?
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