18/20 years ago I haa a 'thing' with this bloke. Lets call him Fred.
Fred was 9/10 years older than me, I think I was 19? I met Fred at work. I don't think I looked twice at Fred as he wasn't my type. But did note he was good looking in a well groomed sort of way.
Anyway, Fred persuded me. At the time I didn't drive so he used to ick me up and we'd go to his place. We never went 'out'.
So you may be thinking bootycall? Yep I would agree and this is were is gets strange..... We used to do lots of sexual stuff but didn't have sex. I don't think I pushed it with him, was young, not much confidencd etc. this continued for a long time on and off I think.
Then one day we met up and went to his new flat, same senario but had sex. I cried and said it was because I loved someone else but really I think I'd never experienced anything so intense. I was hung up on some other loser though.
So you had non penetrative sex? Then you had penetrative sex? Then ypou cried and admitted loving someone else and are wondering why he didn't call you back? Maybe because you cried and said you loved someone else?
I think Fred may well have been in a relationship, so therefore, could justify "*sexual stuff* whatever that is but, stopped short of PIV for as long as possible. Quite possibly enjoyed the other stuff more than PIV like a lot of men do anyway, is another possibility?
I think you know why it ended, after what you said. Any man with an ounce of self respect would've done the same