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Advice please ..

(4 Posts)
user1485088534 Sun 22-Jan-17 12:43:45

So my Husband has said he doesnt have a desire to want our marriage to work, he said he's doesn't know if he wants it to work.

We have had problems for a few months he says he isn't happy and is tried of trying.

I'm not the easiest person to live with for about a year now I don't know who I am. I feel completely lost. I check his phone, 8 question about who he has spoken to ect I find it really difficult to stop myself. We have 3 children and I adore him.
He says he doesn't love me like that anymore, he says he misses the old me but can't tell me what I have done to have changed. Im so confused he says he wants to try and make it work but doesn know if he even wants it.

esiotrot2015 Sun 22-Jan-17 12:46:58

Is he prepared to try marital counselling ?
Is there a reason you check his phone ? Previous history ?

user1485088534 Sun 22-Jan-17 12:49:18

No I've become this anixous person, who over thinks everything. Everything goes through my head and I can't control it.

He's an amazing person and amazing dad, I just don't know how to fix my marriage. He says I need to change, he doesn't like me anymore. We have been together for 10 years xx

laurzj82 Sun 22-Jan-17 13:08:18

Are you anxious in other areas of your life? Has there been behaviour from him that has triggered you checking up on him?

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