I'm not normally one to share my woes publically, but I do need a supportive word at the moment.
Been separated from my XH for over 18 months now - lots of water under the bridge and we have an excellent co- parenting relationship. Couldn't ask for a better situation in that regard really.
Lodged for a divorce back in October, and the notice finally came through in the mail today. I'm so upset - it's such a stark, cold reminder of everything that I lost. A 13-year relationship summed up in a couple of legal sentences
Mind you, I don't have any desire to be with my XH again. I think it's all just been complicated by the fact that the first serious relationship I've had since ended on New Years Eve (that was with Mr 'Cricket, Darts & Football' lol) and I'm still reeling from that. I though that he was in it for the long haul, but he dumped me out of the blue.
I just feel so lost and like I don't belong anywhere. I don't have many friends, I'm not close to family, and have a tendency to hide away when feeling low.
Not sure what I'm looking for here - maybe just want to get it out
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NoMoreCricketDartsOrFootball · 21/01/2017 02:01
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