Hi All
Just getting back in to dating and it's going good although I'm a little inexperienced after a long relationship!
Has anyone ever had any experience of this?
Went out on a few dates with this guy. Ridiculously compatible in terms of physical attraction. He's hot as hell 🔥
However, in terms of emotional connection............Nil. Zero. Nada.
I don't think he listens to me very well. For example, when I am talking he appears to go off in his own thoughts and then suddenly interrupts me about a random thing he was thinking about.
Also...I seem to know a great deal about him but he hardly knows anything about me. One date, I asked him several questions in a light hearted, get-to-know you manner which he appeared very happy to answer. However, he lacked the social skills to be able to ask any back. It all came across as a bit arrogant and 'all about him'. Like....smug smile and enjoying talking about himself but he wasn't interested in asking me anything about myself. I volunteered information for him but he didn't appear too interested.
I don't find his jokes or sense of humour very funny.
However, when we've erm...been 'making out' it's got a bit passionate and he excites me to hell.
Has anyone experienced this?
Did a guy start out like this but then improved for you?
Is it the right thing to do to offer him feedback on this?
Or should I just run at this early stage?
He's made it clear that he's after a meaningful, long term relationship rather than just special friends......(damn).
Thank you for having me and I'd appreciate any input!
Thanks
Han xxxxx
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user1484954729 · 20/01/2017 23:40
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