I've been to see a solicitor today regarding divorcing my husband. I'm on the 'marriages that aren't THAT bad' thread and have finally come to it that he will not agree to separate so this is my final option.
Solicitor asked me to come up with at least 4 reasons to Base it on unreasonable behaviour but I'm struggling!
On paper he is actually a perfect husband and father... I just don't love him anymore
So far I have. ...
- After arguing he will frequently not talk to me/ blank me for up to a week
- He spends most evenings playingon his phone
- not sure how to word this but when we've spoken about separating he emotionally blackmails me regarding our children so that I back down as feel like the worst mum in the world
- during an argument about 5 months ago he punched a hole in the wall
Since our initial talk in 2015 he has stepped up with cleaning/ housework etc so can't even use that.
Has anyone managed to divorce a 'perfect' man before??