Hello,
I am new here and this is my first post.
So basically I am 21 and my boyfriend is 24, we've been together 4 years and we have two kids and a dog.
Things haven't been the best as we are catching up on finances after he was jobless for a month and a half. He now earns a really good wage and we are on top of things.
4 years ago I was a size 8. After two kids and being severely depressed I turned to comfort eating so I'm now a size 18. We don't have sex anymore and I'm sure it's because of this, but the love is still there.
I want to marry him but he's always said maybe due to the costs involved.
I'm not interested in a big wedding. I would be happy to go to the town hall and do it. I mentioned it to him tonight and again I got a maybe and he tried to change the conversation and got really shitty with me. He will never give me a yes or a no, should I just give up hope? Will he ever want to marry me?
Oh and I should add his parents aren't married and they've been together since they were 17. Might be where he gets his tunnel vision from.
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AIBU wanting to get married
LifeAsWeKnowIt · 19/01/2017 21:19
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