I have had to block my on/off Long term partner and father of my 5 yr old ds.
Block him on my mobile house phone etc
He now lives several miles from me and has always been semi controlling, but being the needy person I was, i was flattered by his constant checking up on me and phone calls.
I thought it meant he cared and i was on his mind all the time which I actually took as a good thing :/
It turns out his obsession with me just grew and grew and definitely not in a positive way!
30+ phone calls a day was the average.
At his request I came off social media etc.
And then one day it was like the smoke had lifted and I could finally see this was detrimental to me and not normal or loving at all.
Since our split I have moved away and he visits his child every other weekend but it's like he pretends we are still together and it confuses me.
When I ignore phone calls and texts the language becomes abusive, threats of not paying any money, and trying to guilt me over things he has purchased through out our relationship and asking for them all back !
These are not small things like jewellrey but our loungesuit, microwave etc
I am sorry this is getting rather long but any advice on how to handle this is appreciated.
Also I have now blocked him for a few days and he has called around my family and friends saying im refusing to let him talk to his son- but I know he just wants to get me on the phone and say horrible things to me, that I am just too sensitive to hear right now..
Am I being unfair in not letting him speak to his child? The conversations have always been very uneventful he doesn't really know how to interact with our child or make him laugh or anything and son often does not want to speak to him anyway.
Seems like I can't win either way?
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Obsessive 30+ phone calls a day
Tealights · 18/01/2017 13:36
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