Am I being stupid or is this reason to be upset? Husband doesn't share information with me that I subsequently learn when listening to him talking to other people. Sometimes these things are small, like gossip to do with his old job. Other times slightly larger. Today while at a family (his) gathering I found out that a step relative's father had died. You can probably imagine the conversation. Me: when are you travelling home? Step relative: after the funeral. Me: who's funeral? Step relative: my dad. He died last week. Cue me feeling very crass.
I believe a relationship should be built on friendship and support. I feel that dh believes in a more co-parenting approach and you get your friendship from outside the relationship. I just fel very sad and lonely that my husband can't be bothered to talk to me about stuff. He says it's not important and I am being silly. When I read the divorce thread I do feel stupid and over dramatic but this not how I expected things to be (10 years together, 7 married, dd).
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Postagestamppat · 15/01/2017 11:08
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