Could anyone help me and give me some advise as to what they think I could have done in this situation.
I met a man I really like (OLD) 2 months ago. We get on well, have seen each other quite a few times and was initially really keen.
The thing is that after a few weeks the interest seemed to drop on his part and I think his divorce started to get more complicated (I had been involved with someone in the past who was getting divorced which wasn't much of an issue so didn't see this as a red flag).
He's got a really busy job with shifts, 3 dc and family he sees so I understand he's busy and with me having a teen ds too wasn't too much of an issue either.
The thing that became an issue for me was him arranging to meet me then cancelling (6 times in 10 weeks) for various family / work reasons and that his communication slowly declined and although was daily was often sparse, and I was feeling confused where I was with us.
Yesterday, I messaged him to say I wasn't sure about things, that I'm not very good with ambigious situations and that maybe things would work out in the future when he was in a better place in life but weren't really at the moment.
I've had a number of failed relationships in the past that I've kept on and on trying with and just felt like this was going the same way.
What would you have done?
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I messaged to call things off for now, did I do the right thing?
Vulnerability8 · 14/01/2017 12:00
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