No affection, no communication, no sex. In the past, frequently being ostracised. Being fairly regularly verbally abused (which then leads to the long silences). Being called an incompetent bum who should complain about my issues to my "shitbags" (my friends and or family I presume) was the most recent gem
I do think I need to initiate a divorce as I have now completely given up trying as there is no point, and I have kind of seen the light regarding the unreasonability of it all.
But still I don't know how I will find the courage to disrupt everyone's lives (h and 3 dc) to this extent. It doesn't help that I know there were things I could have done differently in the relationship.
Should I just vanish instead?
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How do you get over the "guilt" and "unthinkability" of needing to end a relationship where there are dc?
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scaredoffallout · 13/01/2017 06:59
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