Hello ladies, I'm wondering if anyone has some advice please? I separated from my daughter's dad last summer, we were not married but together 8 years. He moved out in august to a 1 bed flat, I agreed to our daughter (5) staying over once a week in his bed until he gets something sorted or circumstances change. He has told me last night that he has met someone else and been seeing her since October and wants my daughter and hers to meet. I've said no to that as I feel it's too soon and my DD is already upset when she stays with him so I think she needs to build confidence with that first. I've also said I no longer want him to share a bed with her as it's not appropriate now he is sleeping with someone. He is going mad about it saying I'm spiteful but surely it's not rocket science?! I've suggested a blow up bed he thinks it's laughable. What's the deal here? Can I insist that my 5 year old has somewhere to sleep independently or she cannot stay? He's bandying the word "legal" about all over the place now...
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