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Lack of erection dtd (Sorry TMI)

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Ehlana Thu 12-Jan-17 01:20:44

Myself and DP are having some "problems" when trying to DTD.

Sorry for TMI blush he loses erection when we try to dtd, yet maintains it during all foreplay.

There is nobody else and no porn. Am at real wits end, has been happening for almost a year and very frustrating.

Normandy Thu 12-Jan-17 02:08:54

Has he seen a doctor? ED can be an early sign of heart disease.

Ehlana Thu 12-Jan-17 02:10:52

Would he be able to maintain it during foreplay though?

Chops2016 Thu 12-Jan-17 02:41:53

Have you talked to him about it? What does he say?

Could he be anxious about being able to perform? Could he be worried about finishing too soon?

Has he always had this problem?

Ehlana Thu 12-Jan-17 03:15:38

He's completely at a loss.

Started just under a year ago, no significant, or otherwise, event to trigger it either. Together 20 years.

Normandy Thu 12-Jan-17 03:18:17

Potentially -- maybe his heart rate rises when it's time to dtd vs foreplay. Regardless, after a year of this being an issue it's time for a medical opinion.

PitilessYank Thu 12-Jan-17 03:27:26

Is his erection during foreplay fairly solid or is it a bit soft?

Ehlana Thu 12-Jan-17 03:44:20

Will get him to make an appointment today.

He's very hard during foreplay, and can maintain it no problems.

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