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"You are so full of yourself"

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Inexperiencedchick · 11/01/2017 20:37

Am I?

Agreed last week (from OLD) to meet up today. So nothing confirmed until Monday. I message online asking the place and the time. So he is online on Monday, yesterday and today during a day. No confirmation. Then at 6:30 this evening a message saying "Shall we meet up in a local pub?"

Didn't want to reply but did at the end saying no chance for him to meet me, maybe someone else will be okay with that kind of behaviour. And got a reply that I'm so full of myself.
Am I? What would you do?

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BlueKarou · 11/01/2017 20:49

Ignore, walk away, try again with someone else.

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NoMoreCricketDartsOrFootball · 11/01/2017 20:52

I would leave it. Not worth the stress of trying to justify yourself to someone you have no investment in. Let him think what he wants.

You've made it clear that you won't tolerate that sort of behaviour, and he's made it clear that he's a tosser.

On to the next one!!!

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Inexperiencedchick · 11/01/2017 20:58

I left it as it is. I didn't even block him. Won't give him that kind of pleasure...

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honeyroar · 11/01/2017 20:59

No more cricket is right. Some pillocks are easier to spot than others, he's one of them!

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Gallavich · 11/01/2017 20:59

Why do you ask what to do? You write him off as a twat and move on.

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BantyCustards · 11/01/2017 21:00

Next....

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Inexperiencedchick · 11/01/2017 21:01

Gallavich, usually I doubt myself. Thus a thread here...

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GrandDesespoir · 11/01/2017 21:25

No, not full of yourself; you just have a modicum of self-respect. I can't stand it when people leave you hanging and then expect you to drop everything at a moment's notice. To do that on a first date is pretty shoddy and unattractive behaviour, imo.

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silkflowers · 11/01/2017 23:43

Ignore him, I wouldn't give him the satisfaction of a reply. He behaved shoddily and you did well to tell him you didn't want to meet up.

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MsStricty · 12/01/2017 13:00

He's projecting (in other words, he's telling you what he is, not what you are). Dodged a bullet, OP.

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BantyCustards · 12/01/2017 13:04

Stricty is right

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Inexperiencedchick · 12/01/2017 19:00

After an hour he wrote back again saying he would like to meet me. I blocked him, but before blocking he even explained his words saying I'm bossy 😳 After that statement I blocked him, then deleted my profile too just to have a little brake. I was getting fed up with OLD a bit so it was easy decision.
Thank you ladies for all your help and support 💐

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BantyCustards · 12/01/2017 19:52

What a prince 😫

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GeekyWombat · 12/01/2017 20:21

He was clearly hedging his bets in case he got a better offer.

You definitely did better and did the right thing. But don't delete your profile permanently because of him - there are lovelier people out there and you deserve to find one.

Good luck!

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