Hi
I just wrote a thread but I don't think it was very clear. So I'll try again.
I'm 29 and my oh is also 29
We have two children 2 and 11
Background
We married in 2012, in a foolish whirlwind romance. I hardly knew him but I was vulnerable at the time. My son in care and recovering from a second attempt at suicide. My mum was ill when Iet him Inow Dec. He was verbally and emotionally abusive. Everything came to a head in April 2014. I just had our baby, recovering from finding out he was on sex hook up sites until just after baby was born. Not new behaviour just thought we had moved on.
My husband decided when I went on maternity leave to join a mlm company. We struggled. He wouldn't let me pay rent so Jan we started receiving notice. Just to note I used to work.in housing and benefits. So understood some of the issue.we ended up separating due to this issue. We have been separate since 2015
Serious issues arose and we went to a place of safety in Feb 2016.
Due to weakening in my conviction of my husband. We made a new attempt to work on our marriage.
Current issues
Is he cheating on me?
It probably doesn't matter but it something that bothers me.
What does he gain from gaslighting me?
How do I begin to move on?
Are my children safe with him?
I have done some things but just need some Wisdomain. I have seen your amazing advice offered. Hope I may be blessed the same way.
Thanks
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Why is he doing these things? Please help
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Shakemyfaith · 11/01/2017 02:36
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