How is it possible to Co-parent with a bully?? After months of separation I thought it would get easier but it really hasn't. Today's example - my LO one is 19 months and started to get lazy with feeding himself going back to using hands. Ex tells me he uses the aeroplane method!! I ask him not too as LO is well passed that stage and if he won't feed himself properly to put the food on the fork for LO to then do the rest. Apparently I am treating him like a 16 year old and not a baby that needs to have fun! Like FFS. Another instance has refused to take LO to his dance class during his contact (the time has now increased so fits in with it) because he didn't like something I said and that I shouldn't benefit from him taking LO to the class, so he would rather him miss 2 out 4. Feel like I have to treat on eggshells all the time yet he can do, say whatever and then threaten me with court again if I don't toe the line.
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