So basically I'm in the most confusing 'relationship' ever. I really don't know where to start but I'll try........
Known the guy for a lot of years.
He was with someone as was I so nothing happened.
Always had a spark.
He split up with ex, so did I.
My split was complete, apart from DS I had no contact with ex.
He still lived across the road, stayed at what was still his house at the time, to look after his DS, stayed with his folks otherwise.
Had the odd liaison with each other.
Nothing ever came of it? Not really sure why? He would go quiet.
Him and ex still very much in contact, even going on holiday together, albeit in a large group but I find it strange?
Saw them out shopping lots in the supermarket.
So late last year he buys a house of his own.
I tell him when he sorts his head out maybe look me up?
He contacted me late last year to say he's ready to commit and 'give things a go'?
Agree to see more of each other which we do kind of?
I just feel I'm still not part of his life? I've not been invited to meet his son or his folks, who he is close to.
I know he's not with ex (I know her) but I still feel really uncomfortable with their relationship albeit they aren't even on speaking terms right now.
I saw him at the weekend it was lovely, he cooked for me, we went out publicly hand in hand and spent the night together.
But then no mention of when we are seeing each other again.
I've asked him what he wants he says he wants to 'see how things go'???
What does that mean??
Every time I see him I want him more, I want to tell people we are together! Is that weird? I don't think it is?!
We are both in our 40s it's not like we are young and clueless. He had only had his ex (and a few silly flings) since he was 17, I've had s few more relationships.
I just want to know where to go next I feel it's consuming me?
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Roundincirclesagainandagain · 10/01/2017 09:36
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