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Ex and self harm

(3 Posts)
onanotherday Mon 09-Jan-17 23:18:14

Ok had an argument over money...now he's threatening self harm. He is BPD...but now lives abroad. I know I should ignore...but one day he may finally kill himself and dc's would be devastate. Sorry need to tell someone as no one on RL. Thanks

CockacidalManiac Tue 10-Jan-17 01:32:00

I'm also BPD, but if he's threatening to harm himself when you're arguing about money then he's attempting to manipulate you.

onanotherday Tue 10-Jan-17 06:34:44

Thank you....he's managed too!!
I feel helpless trying to co-parent is hard. I've been sympathetic for years. ..but his choices have caused real pain.sad

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