I have been with my husband 18 years we have 3 children (10,7,6)and my life is getting worse by the minute. He has been verbally abusive in the past, which he has now got under control most of the time with medication last year as I was going to leave.
Our 2 son have no respect for me and hardly ever do as I ask, eldest son is rude and out of control , my oh always undermines me so I feel completely powerless in any discipline I try and teach our kids.
If I try and talk to my husband he just gets cross and shouts Tells me I'm overreacting and a drama queen till I back down and then I resume into being submissive as don't want to argue,, and nothing ever gets resolved, I'm literally at breaking point.
Feel like running away but could never leave my kids.
oh works and provides for us and I'm a stay at home mum,we have a mortgage so have no income to pay it . I'm always thinking of being alone when kids all grown up and looking forward to it.
I think if I leave my oh, and we share looking after the kids, he will turn them into, rude, spoilt, unruly kids and make my life looking after them even more difficult.
So confused don't know what to do.
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Sarah8410 · 09/01/2017 10:31
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