To cut a long story short, although all my kids are now adult, my ex husband (high earner, remarried, owns home) still has to pay me just over £200 a month, to repay a £30,000 debt when he didn't pay maintenance AT ALL for most of the children's growing up. So I lived in desperate poverty when they were small and the CSA have told him to pay this money for around 15 years until the debt is repaid.
My son has taken over his sister's lease car, but he's still at university so his dad is covering the payments until he leaves (he has a guaranteed job from May, so will be able to start paying himself then), So ex has stopped paying me my money, even though the car costs are around £50 a month less than he owes.
What do I do? I am completely skint and relied on that £200 to top up my pathetic NMW so I could afford, you know, food, rent all that, so I couldn't afford to help pay for the car. My son needs the car and I'm grateful that his dad agreed to help out. I don't want to rock the boat and have him stomp around going 'fine, you have your money and I won't pay for the car'...so what do I do?
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Ex not paying overdue CSA - but covering son's car cost
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Zaphodsotherhead · 06/01/2017 18:04
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