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Name changed yada yada yada. I had made a friend online through a popular video game. We are both in our late 20s. We've been talking most days for several months and have become pretty close. He doesn't have any living family and very few irl friends. He has an on again/off again girlfriend. I am married.
Recently however, I worry that for him it's becoming more than friendship. Certain messages he's sent make me certain that his feelings have changed, then when we speak the next day or so everything is back to normal. So I'm not 100% sure.
My dilemma is, we've supported each other during some terrible times (the death of an abusive parent on his part) and I don't want to hurt his feelings but selfishly, I would find it really difficult to step back as I really enjoy his company. There is potential for an irl meet up very soon where we would be having a few drinks together (my dh is fully aware of all this btw, except of the potential change of feeling) what if he makes a move. What if he confesses unbridled love (ok a bit dramatic) how can we come out of this with our friendship intact or is it doomed? Any advice on how to proceed is greatly welcomed. He's been hurt enough by women in his life, I don't want to be another one.
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Is my male friend crossing the line?
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User24601 · 05/01/2017 11:47
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