Just having a moan because I havnt got anyone else to whinge too. I'm the poster whose ex tried to insist that I put a Christmas tree up in my house because 'I should'.
Potted version...been trying to get divorced for over 8+ years, high court 20+ times, two kids who went non contact with their Dad last summer for about months after his behaviour got increasingly difficult. Have lost everything- family home, every penny I had, career, on verge of bankruptcy because of his (proven) fraudent behaviour ( v slim chance I will avoid it by the skin of my teeth but my credit rating is now so damaged because of what he has done I can't even get a phone contract) ,he sends police to house because 'I am harming kids', lots of nasty horrible behaviour to us while he pretends to be the perfect gentleman to everyone else, doesn't/never has paid maintainence, built up loads (100k+) debt in 'our' name and is in trouble with tax man etc. He has even tried to take 'his portion of benefits' off us for the few times he has had the kids over to stay.
Anyway Finally got divorce in December after another very nasty day in court when he said a lot of untrue horrible things about me and judge basically told him he was a poor excuse for a father.
So the reason for my whinge is this...kids have slowly been building up seeing him again ( not back up to terms of contact order more just when they feel like it or he manages to talk them round) and ended up staying with him at his family home over new year. Now if it was me and I hadn't seen much of my kids I would have been bending over backwards to make the time special instead he kept them with the entire family the whole time and didn't spend any time alone with them, he made them go to church against their wishes ( they have both now chosen to be atheist) and spent the rest of the time on 'my' Netflix. MY NETFLIX, using my code to get it , the Netflix I pay for, the Netflix that is nothing to do with him. He basically got DD to give him the code and had been using it the whole time they were there. Thankfully she had the sense to log out as she was leaving ( we only pay for the one that allows a limited number of users to save money so she knew if I was on it at home them she wouldn't be able to go on it if he kept using the code) and then he got cross and tried to get her to give him the code again before she left so he could keep using it.
I know in the big picture it is only a tiny thing but boy has it totally pissed me off.....
Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody
Relationships
Ex and family nicking Netflix whinge
Potentialmadcatlady · 02/01/2017 10:50
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.