For context we have two dc aged 2 and 6. Married for three years . We have had an awful year and awful Christmas . After a minor disagreement my dh called me a mental bitch and told me how crazy I am . This is a regular pattern after every argument . He called his mother and repeated how mad I am ( knew I was listening ) she then started leaving me voicemails telling me I have to stop this and how miserable I am making the children. I am not the one having angry rages and name calling . Or is it me ? Is this normal in arguments ? I want to leave as I can't take this anymore and I want the children to have the best childhood they can have . Dh is a great provider and is generous but has this side to him , what can I do ? He won't go for marriage therapy as he says I start things . He won't leave the house. . I am trapped
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