Bit of a saddo post for NYE but here goes...
DP and I struggle to sleep in the same bed, despite an upgrade to a superking - as I'm a ridiculously light sleeper due to a chronic pain condition, and he manages to sleep incredibly soundly yet tossing and turning vigourously all night! Bit of a crap combination
Lately we've been sleeping in separate rooms with him in the spare bed. It's been nearly a year now which makes us both quite sad. I'm also in the last few weeks of pregnancy and bonkers with sleep deprivation anyway, so this won't change imminently.
But our NY resolutions this year are to try harder at sleeping together, and we are prepared to throw some money at it.
Can you give me any tips for what has worked for you?
- Single beds pushed together to avoid movement in the night? What brand do you recommend to avoid massive gaps down the middle?
- Separate duvets?
- Anything else?!
Also bit of a straw poll... who else sleeps separately and do you find it has an impact (positive or negative) on your relationship?
Thank you!
Oh and Happy New Year