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Ex in my head

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lollypophairball Fri 30-Dec-16 19:56:15

We broke up 15 years ago. Both remarried and NC. No children between us. Why does he still appear in my thoughts and dreams sometimes? I don't want to reconcile and we haven't spoken in many years. So it's very odd. Genuinely curious!

LemonSqueezy0 Fri 30-Dec-16 20:14:48

Do you feel like you're in love with him? Do you feel he 'got away?' was it his or your choice to break up?

lollypophairball Fri 30-Dec-16 20:22:48

He got away, he ended it and I hung on. I had an immense attraction to him physically although emotionally we were on different planes. The separation was devastating at the time. I would have thought that was all worked through by now though.

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