Need some perspective. Will have to be brief as MIL is here now.
Background: she did Santa sacks last year and got confused saying they were from FC then saying look what I got you.
This plus the fact that DH and me want to "do the FC thing" led to us asking her about 5 times in the run up to please wrap the presents she gives so the kids learn to say thank you to GM etc. We were clear and tactful (I thought).
I also told her what we were getting dds for their main present. She bought dd1 what we were going to get her in November. I was upset but let it go. I told her that we were planning on getting dd1 that toy, and also repeated what we were getting dd2.
Fast forward to today and she's brought round two massive Santa sacks with unwrapped presents. She did say "they are from ME not FC" as soon as she came in with them.
Final nail in the coffin for me today was when we were telling her about why FC had brought and I couldn't find dd2s main present that I have told her about. She says to me "don't worry as I think she may have another one coming".
So she's deliberately duplicated both dds main FC presents. She also has bought the same toy again for dd1 as the first one she got her broke.
Just need some perspective and calming down. Suggestions on what the fuck to do also appreciate!
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Doublemint · 30/12/2016 12:22
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