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I am evil

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RainbowCrash4321 Thu 29-Dec-16 17:01:41

I'm watching my daughter and partner playing together and it's so beautiful. I've been cheating on him for nearly two years.

klassy Thu 29-Dec-16 17:06:53

Oh dear, why did you start this thread?

Italiangreyhound Thu 29-Dec-16 17:07:07

Are you planning on sorting this out or just carrying on?

randomeragain Thu 29-Dec-16 17:07:12

are you enjoying the cheating

Whatslovegottodo Thu 29-Dec-16 17:07:16

What do you want out of this thread?

user1483018975 Thu 29-Dec-16 17:07:46

What do you want us to say?
Continue or end it!

Ohdearducks Thu 29-Dec-16 17:08:21

Then stop. You have a choice.

PurpleDaisies Thu 29-Dec-16 17:08:38

What do you propose to do about it?

Amandahugandkisses Thu 29-Dec-16 17:08:52

You are not evil. There are reasons why we do things. Stop being dramatic and make a change if you must.

Fallonjamie Thu 29-Dec-16 17:08:55

You're not evil but you need to sort your shit out and stop feeling sorry for yourself.

RacoonBandit Thu 29-Dec-16 17:09:11

2 years is a long time. You need to be honest with him.

RainbowCrash4321 Thu 29-Dec-16 17:09:35

Because they both deserve better than me. Yes I am enjoying the cheating.

frauleinsallybowles Thu 29-Dec-16 17:10:16

prepare to be flayed op

Shockers Thu 29-Dec-16 17:10:54

Maybe this moment is your epiphany.

If he finds out, all of your lives will be shattered.

talkingtoclarry Thu 29-Dec-16 17:11:22

Well you either stop or get ready for the catastrophic fallout when you get found out.

wherearemymarbles Thu 29-Dec-16 17:11:57

I think hq should just delete the thread. Dont feed the monkey.

gettingtherequickly Thu 29-Dec-16 17:16:08

Oh don't be so fucking melodramatic.

Two years and you've only just figured your actions might cause them pain?

Ilovecaindingle Thu 29-Dec-16 17:17:45

Is your partner her dad?

TheoriginalLEM Thu 29-Dec-16 17:17:47

Why are you cheating though? are you not happy? it sounds like you have very low self esteem and would benefit from some counselling. I read it like it is almost a form of self harm. You are not evil, you might be self centred and weak but evil? come on!! If you were in any way evil you would feel no remorse for hurting your loved ones.

You have the power to stop this and turn things around. You have the power to stop cheating and end your marriage if it isn't happy, you have the power to stop cheating and work on your marriage (whether you come clean is a matter for your own conscience) or you leave your partner and child or just your partner and continue with the new person{if that is an option]

You don't have to continue to do this - you can take control and make the right decision.

You know you are doing wrong, it is hurting you to continue to do this. Take control.

SoleBizzz Thu 29-Dec-16 17:19:18

Are you male or female?

ElornaElephant Thu 29-Dec-16 17:20:32

Do him a favour - confess all and leave him, and soon. It recently came out that my father had an affair - it all came out after a year of separation from my mother due to his EA, but this has been the greatest betrayal of them all. Please spare your little girl the pain of going through this as an adult as I am.

NotTheFordType Thu 29-Dec-16 17:23:45

Welcome to Mumsnet, OP biscuit

Maudlinmaud Thu 29-Dec-16 17:26:05

Yes that's quite bad, wouldn't say evil. But it's not very nice.

ohdofeckoffnowdear Thu 29-Dec-16 17:48:38

😂😂 nice one op, how lovely that ur enjoying shagging some idiot. Just by the the way you posted, I hope you get caught.

Your husband and daughter deserve better.

Fuck off now grin

BubblingUp Thu 29-Dec-16 17:55:13

Evil is a strong word. You aren't evil. Foolish, selfish, reckless, entitled, yes. Evil, no.

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